Sunday, December 7, 2014

Shake It Off

During at least one point in our lives, we will be treated like an object by someone who we thought we could trust. Unfortunately for some of us, we will experience this more than once. And that's ok. It makes us stronger in every way. I recently experienced this for the second time in a year, and here is what I have to say about it:

THANK YOU to the guys who hurt me. Thank you for teaching me what I don't want in a man. Thank you for showing me what it's like to be treated like I'm worthless. Thank you for providing me with characteristic ideas for antagonists that I could feature in my future books. Thank you for proving that somewhat good looks do not, and never will, make up for loser personalities. Thank you for coming and going in my life.

There is no excuse for defending someone who is too blind to see your self worth. Drop them, and let them come to the harsh realization one day that you are special and they never deserved your company in the first place. The person who will treat you with respect will walk into your life when you least expect them to. Surprises are wonderful.

Cheers to living life for me and no one else!

- LJ

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